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Men's Perspective

Flowers for love not for memorial services

As we welcome the month of March I hope all the ladies have received love and most of it all honour and respect from all men…

For those who support sports in SA the past month has seen a dark cloud crowding Oscar Pistorius and robbing us one of the top ladies of this country Reeva Steenkamp, either we think it was murder or a self defence accident, Justice will take its course and the truth shall prevail!

From a men’s perspective this incident above has reminded me to send a message to all the ladies “a real men knows that violence is not a solution, no mater how small it may look”.

From a men’s perspective I thought I must share with you this writing by an unknown author:-

 He gave me flowers:
I got flowers today. It wasn’t my birthday or any other special day.
We had our first argument last night and he said a lot of cruel things
that really hurt me. I know that he is sorry and didn’t mean to say the
things he said – because he sent me flowers today.
I got flowers today. It wasn’t our anniversary or any other special day.
Last night he threw me into a wall and then started to choke me.
It seemed like a nightmare but you wake up from nightmares to find
that they aren’t real. I woke up this morning sore and bruised all over.
I know he must be sorry – because he sent me flowers today.
I got flowers today. And it wasn’t Valentines Day or any other special
day. Last night he beat me and threatened to kill me.
Makeup and long sleeves didn’t hide the cuts and bruises this time.
I couldn’t go to work because I didn’t want anyone to know
But I know he is sorry – because he sent me flowers today.
I got flowers today and it wasn’t Mother’s Day or any other special day.
Last night he beat me again and it was much worse than all the other
times. If I leave him what will I do? How will I take care of the kids?
What about money? I’m afraid of him and too scared to leave him!
But he must be sorry – because he sent me flowers today.
I got flowers today. Today was a very special day.
It was the day of my funeral.
Last night he finally killed me. I was beaten to death.
If only I would have gathered enough courage and strength to leave him.
So I got flowers today – for the very last time.

Please do yourself a favour report abuse before it is too late…

As I close this months article, Let me tell it to you from a “men’s perspective” No men smashes a car he likes and if he really love you, you should worth more than that car to him. #RealManTellsItAsItIs

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